Sandra Kilmer

Obituary of Sandra L. Kilmer

Sandra L. Kilmer,  74, of Hyde Park, NY died at home on Wednesday, June 9, 2021. Sandra was born on January 6, 1947 in Poughkeepsie, NY to the late Velvo M. and Edith A. Ackert Byrum. She married Ernest A. Kilmer on September 18, 1983 in Wappinger Falls, NY.

A local resident all her life, she attended local schools and received her Paralegal Certificate from Marist College. Sandra was employed as a Paralegal with IBM in Poughkeepsie, NY and was also a Real Estate Agent. She was a member of St. Pauls Episcopal Church in Poughkeepsie, NY. She enjoyed boating, sewing and gardening.

Sandra is survived by her son Michael A. and wife Lauren Lewis of Poughkeepsie, NY, stepson and daughter Terry and Jen Kilmer of Hyde Park, NY, step daughter Tammy L. Braig of Raleigh, NC, grandchildren Christopher M. Lewis and fiance Sara Marabella, Rebecca and Mackenzie Lewis, Gretah, Addie, Wyatt Kilmer and Shala and Tegan Sneed. She is also predeceased by her two brothers Richard K. Byrum and Robert L. Byrum.

There are no calling hours. A Graveside Funeral Service will take place 11am on June 15, 2021 at Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of the Timothy P. Doyle Funeral Home, Inc. 371 Hooker Avenue, Poughkeepsie, NY 12603. Memorial donations can be made In Sandra's name to Hudson Valley Hospice 374 Violet Ave. Poughkeepsie, New York 12601.

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Funeral Service

11:00 am
Tuesday, June 15, 2021
Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery
South Ave
Poughkeepsie, New York, United States


Poughkeepsie Rural Cemetery
South Road
Poughkeepsie, New York, United States